Attachment
is an expression of a bond between
two people. With the intention to
express love, careness and how much
you mean to each other. Which can
only be pass from a person. Replacing
a person with an object can not show
love and careness for each other.
For
example a child hugs a teddy bear
can not replace the attachment when
the child hugs his or her father or
a child place a pillow on his or her
body can not show careness for each
other. Children gets attachment from
holding an adult's hand, sitting on
laps, hugs, graping arms, kissing
cheeks, carrying each other, watching
television next to each other. These
actions can pass love, careness to
the child and make the attachment
even stronger. Children needs attachment
from both parents. Don't think that
one parent is enough. The love needs
to be pass from both parents to the
child, so that it is warm and strong.
If children receives rejection like
for example a child comes to sit on
a father's lap while he is reading
the newspaper the father then ignores
the child and push him away or while
a mother is watching television her
child comes to sit next to her and
ask to hold her hand. The mother then
rejects the child's request for holding
her hand and then ignores the child.
